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4 High-Value Ways To Get A Hot Guy's Number

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Want to Learn How To Talk To Men in any Situation? Click here... www.getthescripts.com *** You’ve just met the coolest guy. He’s cute. He’s funny. The two of you just had a great conversation and you can feel the tingle of excitement from that initial first moment of chemistry. You want to get to know him better, but your friends are telling you it’s time to leave. How do you get his number?? Quick! He’s leaving! This is an all-too-common situation, and I don’t know about you, but as far as I’m concerned it’s one of those little daily tragedies that people are constantly losing potentially amazing partners simply because they don’t know the best technique for getting a guy’s phone number. If you’re sick of losing great opportunities with guys for this reason, make sure you watch this video See, most women in this area think they are powerless to make a move. They hear their friends say: “If he really likes you, he’ll ask for your phone number”. Then they wait…and wait…and nothing happens. Isn’t there an easier solution? A way you can take action, but still be elegant, classy, and have him chase you at the same time? In this week’s blog video, I show you 4 powerful ways to get a guy’s phone number so that you never have to feel stuck in this powerless position again. Use these simple, easy-to-follow techniques and you’ll never have to worry that when you meet a great guy you won’t know how to take it to a first date. *** Links at the end: Learn how to talk to Men in any situation: http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/thescripts/vsl/ 2 Tricks For Approaching Any Guy - https://youtu.be/O8dZEZGBIEo *** Website: http://howtogettheguy.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/gettheguy Facebook: https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter: https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Subscribe: http://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguy...
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Vadimovna (2 days ago)
Thank you so much for these miraculous videos and tips Matthew!!!
K . TH (22 days ago)
*Hussey's a genius.*
pond amelia (24 days ago)
Several times since I have been out young men have started high fiving me, to hit on me? is this a new thing? i was in a relationship for awhile so I think I forgot how the world works. I miss when men would just come over and talk to you. Some nice conversation. It's either staring at me for ages or high fiving me. I get that it's hard to go up to someone as I struggle to do that. But I'm not scary XD
sedameansstrong (28 days ago)
Help me *crawl* I am extremely shy 😭
hotties3v3n (1 month ago)
🙄🙄🙄Typical male pussy wussy bullshit!!! ‘ *YOU* (the woman get the blame) didn’t make it easy, and he’s awkward...’ yet if we outright ask for a guy number we appear desperate and he’s still feeling uncomfortable. My Goodness, use your dick and balls or cut the damn thing off!! Sheez!!!😒😒😒😒
Mary M. (1 month ago)
Great video Matthew - and funny too! :)
ayse colak (2 months ago)
i love your accent
Kassandra Kairo (3 months ago)
What if u give him your number but he never texts back? :/
Meditation to get a text by agnes vivarelli. Also self love meditation Works absolutely
Stephanie C (4 months ago)
Tip # 5: The one that works for me, it works better if you know him a little first, is that you pretend you lost your phone in that big purse we have. For me, I pretended I lost my phone in my car. I actually did lose it for less than a minute and then thought that this would be a good opportunity for the guy that's dragging his feet to get my number. I said "I lost my phone." He says, "I can call it so you can find it" :D ! He did. I found my phone. That night, he called me. I remember thinking, geez, so he was interested, but he didn't make a single move. If he doesn't call, it might mean that he isn't interested.
Suad Mahfouz (4 months ago)
Who else wants to see Matthew on Love Island?
Paula wilson (4 months ago)
just say a want to bonk 😂
hotties3v3n (1 month ago)
Stop it 😒
Paula wilson (4 months ago)
a thought you are hot wits one night of fun you up for that sex a mean text me later around 6 OK 😂
Wind Maker (4 months ago)
Wtf girls don't ask for numbers, give a brotha some advice instead.
Zachary 42! (4 months ago)
A guy here and honestly the best lesson I keep hearing underlying the advice he gives is to be a decent woman (or man). It's a beautiful thing to genuinely care about an utter stranger. Very wise perspective and I appreciate the videos!
Michelle Park (4 months ago)
Ok...I talked to him for the 1st time like 3 days ago. Now I'm going to try to get his number...I'm so nervous. THERE SHOULD BE A GUIDE FOR INTROVERTS!!! Update: I just watched the entire video none of these situations works for me.
louise giordanella (5 months ago)
Matthew How about you do a video with you showing us you talking to a girl you dont know yet?Be good to see it in action :)
Jess F (5 months ago)
So there's this super cute waiter at the local coffee shop I go to weekly. I'm shy, and I know he is too. I don't know how to small talk very well and can't seem to get past the formalities. I don't know how to go about this. Do any of you have any tips without me looking pathetic or desperate? Thanks a mil,I'm crazy attracted to him
deathzbinder (2 months ago)
Jess F Not sure if you still need this suggestion, but you could write a note with a message asking him out for a beverage/dessert casual date, with your phone number for him to text you if he is interested. Give the note to him when you are about to leave so you minimise the timeframe of you feeling awkward. I am a rather shy guy and I understand your situation, but that’s what I plan to do the next time I see the waitress I am attracted to. My message would go something like “Hey I think you are cute but I figured I would be too nervous if I were to ask directly and I didn’t want to put you in a spot while you are working. Would you be interested in a coffee date with me? Drop me a text if you are! -name, phone number” Leaving a note while they are working is a good idea as you won’t throw them off their thought flow during work, as opposed to asking them directly, since they may need the time to consider and make a decision too. It should also prevent you from stumbling on getting your message across, since you are shy! Keep me updated with your story if you do go through with this! If you hesitate in passing the note to him, just take a deep breath and calm your mind! Ask yourself - what’s the worse that could happen?
MignonneFille (5 months ago)
What should we do if a guy gives us his number instead of asking for ours? Is this fear of rejection? Laziness? Or?
Channel 28 (6 months ago)
Haha. Dating is much harder than it used to be!!
Mary Taylor (6 months ago)
I have approached guys in all sorts of places.Once while I was looking for a new pad I asked a really hot estate agent out in his offices. Couldn't find a way to get him away from his colleagues"Excuse me.Can I ask you something.Are you available?"He politely explained he had a girlfriend.All his co-workers stopped & stared at me it went very quiet.He then said "If you don't ask you don't get" smiling.I smiled back blushing saying "exactly".He was very sweet & helped me in an awkward situation & I respected him for this.Lucky girlfriend.Glad I had the balls.Think people's fear of rejection holds them back.Be confident ladies!
Surashi Gupta (6 months ago)
Hi Mathew most of your videos which i have been following since a long time happen to cater to women who are extrovert and extremely confident thus your tips n tricks become easier for them can you suggest something for someone simple yet introvert (shy)
Jeddia Jones (6 months ago)
Jesus Christ, does all this guy do is teach girls how to play fucking games with men? Just be a fucking adult and tell him what you think. If he runs away that's his problem and you find out what kind of guy he is right away. No time wasted.
Emelyn Mantali (7 months ago)
First he asked me if he can drive me home then I said No but I am the one who asked his number hehe. We are very good friends now.... Hi Matthew. Emelyn from Miami I am your biggest fan
Lindsey Woodward (7 months ago)
Matthew, what if a guy gives you HIS number 😳
Burlesca woman (7 months ago)
Andy woman had done this with you haussey ?
DaniieNendova (7 months ago)
I actually need to know How to say NO to a guy without bringing his ego down?
Julie Minasian (7 months ago)
Cutest thing ever!! “The venue change number exchange!!!”
Lindsey Curry (8 months ago)
Great tips, if you’re out every weekend. Difficult as a single parent though
Nidhi Shukla (8 months ago)
Whenever I look at a hot guy, I keep on wondering he must have a girlfriend and I simply cannot be the reason for their breakup or him cheating on her. This is so embarrassing!
Dancing Appaloosa (8 months ago)
The most effective way I have ever used is, if I'm talking to a guy and we're having good conversation and connecting, I smile and take his phone and put my number in his contacts.
kadd toh (9 months ago)
so where r u going afterwards? im going to a friends house oh me and my friend wanted to there too. You should tell me how it was
Perma Pen UK (10 months ago)
I'm skittish about giving encouragement to men, as I'm a REALLY slow operator and tend to bolt when pressured. However, I've found a way that works for me: One time when I was queuing for my coat on the way out of a bar, this adorable Spanish chap locked eyes with me and we had a brief, interested chat. I said I'd be here again next week if he wanted to chat more. No numbers exchanged, no pressure. He did turn up, and we became good friends until he returned to Spain a few weeks later. I would definitely do this again, to say 'Hey, I'll be at so-and-so event if you want to catch up'. On the other hand, I have often played 'hostess' in bars, brazenly going up and asking men my friends like the look of to come and chat to them. That has been highly amusing, and actually very successful.
Bibi Mendez (1 year ago)
There's a guy a like at the gym, we say hello from a distance but nothing else, how do I know if he's interested in me?
mrs C (1 year ago)
Who’s Jameson Matt ?😊
Sarah Qamar (1 year ago)
😅😅😅😅
Sarah Qamar (1 year ago)
Spark in your eyes.
Mz Shabzii (1 year ago)
noone else sees that this guy has a black eye...?
Alyssa Egorugwu (1 year ago)
How do you keep in contact with a potential freind or bf after you get details ?
Laura Padri (1 year ago)
Oh, we're all cool! Why don't you text me once you come over to Milan and I will let you know where to have fun dancing since me and my Group dance Salsa 4 times a week...
Norah Davex (1 year ago)
Ive tried it twice. The guys were taken.
La Española (1 year ago)
Love the tips, but they are culturally conditioned. Getting to a place and saying "hi, how is it going" to a complete stranger in Europe (e.g. Germany or Spain) is completely unrealistic, especially as a female, sorry. Maybe a culturally sensitive comparison of how to approach a guy in different countries would be good content for a video?
Aalilyah Thomas (1 year ago)
My uncles wife approached him in McDonald’s and said I’m leaving and I got tired of waiting for you to ask for my number. So, here you go.
Ryan Nelson1988 (1 year ago)
Tip one, being hot as you are
Alex Lawrence (1 year ago)
Hmmm. I gave a man a note with my number and he freaked. He looked at it and said, "No, no, no, no...." Sigh.
charleen hopkins (1 year ago)
thank you i have a question for you... your in a mall , you hear the sound of a woman,s heels as she walks behinde you , could you tell what kind of girls she is by her sent
Vickie V (1 year ago)
Hmmm... but what if the man is not single and he's just out with friends at that time...? How do you save face if that should be the case lol 😯
Giann Chan (1 year ago)
3:40 omg that’s the cutest thing ever😆😆
Maria Cheddadi (1 year ago)
You are amazing
Elizabeth Abram (1 year ago)
I have watched almost all of your videos, but I still have questions! What do you do if a guy thinks you might have a boyfriend? And what do you do if these 4 ways of exchanging contact info won't work? Allow me to break it down further. I recently began attending group dance classes. A guy that I have been on a few dates with (let's call him "Matthew") comes as well. He shows up late, leaves early, and doesn't pay for my class fee. Still, he treats it like a standing date with me and monopolizes my time when I am there/is physically demonstrative. In walks this other guy, who is gorgeous. (Let's call him "Jamison.") I didn't pay much attention to him at first, but once I danced with him (we are required to rotate partners) I found out that he was funny, charming, charismatic, and sexy. As time goes on, I think there's a connection there on both sides, though he doesn't show undue assertiveness. We get jokingly chastised by the teacher for laughing too much & having too much fun when we dance, he gives me hugs, etc. I've tried as many of your moves as I can. I've said "maybe we shouldn't dance together, we're too much trouble when we do." I pay him some attention/show some interest, but then don't stick right by his side so that he doesn't feel trapped. I keep in mind that I barely know him, and I progress my life/love interests in other areas. I would love to just eliminate him if he's not a good fit, but conversation has not progressed to the point where I could casually ask "Do you have a girlfriend?" I assume not as he does not bring a girl to class. I can't figure out how to tell him that "Matthew" is not my boyfriend in a classy and not random way. He watches me a bit but also does not take every opportunity to pursue me, and even though "Matthew" leaves class early, other guys show aggressive interest and "cock block" me with "Jamison."  I requested to be friends with "Jamison" on Facebook, and he accepted. That's ballsy to the point of discomfort for me. I could go further by handing him my number in class, messaging him on Facebook, or going to another dance class I know he goes to, with the added bonus that "Matthew" would not be there. However since I initiated the Facebook friends, I'm not sure I should do anything further. The only thing I think I SHOULD do is somehow make it clear that I'm not taken by "Matthew." HELP!
Artsi Amateur (1 year ago)
OKAY OKAY! I meet guys majority through my job (my job is at rite aid, I'm a cashier... hence! I meet the cuties... they become regular customers and I want them😐)because that's where I am 94% of my time. So there're are two targets I'm currently after. A new blonde hotty that I have eye flirted with twice. And another blondie that I eye flirt with mega hard who I know is into me... Now see how tf do I offer or get a number exchange in Walgreens like settings 🙄
Courtney Shatley (1 year ago)
Jameson is an illusion O.O Like seriously, he doesn't have a reflection in the window. VAMPIRE!
Vika (1 year ago)
What if I see a guy at uni? But I see him round all the time does the same rule apply?
Only_Vicky I’d say so. I see a lot of the same girls around at my college, I can tell the ones that have an interest in me. Hopefully the guys you’re interested in aren’t clueless.
Isabella Bustamante (1 year ago)
Last week I was at a bar and I was a little tipsy and there was this gorgeous guy that had been looking at me for a while. As my friends and I were leaving I decided to go up to him and say "hey, we're leaving right now but I couldn't leave without telling you that you're really cute". I honestly was just expecting a "hahaha thanks" or something but he begged me to stay and asked where we were going afterwards and I was like :o I didn't want to be that person that stays because of one person so I just ended up leaving but if I had known these tips I would be talking to him rn SIKE.
Chy Lin (1 year ago)
Does he get alot of girl? He seems like he would.
Shamaem Khan (1 year ago)
Something that I like to do when I'm with other people and want someone's details is to stop them and ask if they can take a picture of my friends and I for Snapchat/ Instagram Then go onto say thank you and ask if they have snapchat/ Instagram. The good thing about this is that it works in clubs or even on the street giving you an excuse to stop someone If I'm feeling ballsy in a club dancing with a guy I'll make a remark like "I think we look good, let's get a picture" get a picture with him then say "what's your Facebook so that I can send it to you?" (This also works really well at comic con with cute boys in cosplay)
Rose Garcia (1 year ago)
Matthew these techniques are soooooo against THE RULES. Even your rules. He hasn't earned getting your number.....hmmmmm.
A tori (8 months ago)
Rose Garcia if you find the guy attractive,yes it does.
Jessica Fortunato (1 year ago)
So I did the one Matt suggested, where you tell him something is behind him, he turns around, and you put the napkin with your number in his back pocket.. it was SO awkward!! because he turned the wrong way so that he could still see me and I had to maneuver around him AND he could feel me slip it in!!! Why did he advise us to try that one?!
hotties3v3n (1 month ago)
Lol
Sharon Grant (1 year ago)
I'm a check out lady who is single and a guy keeps coming in the store and he's cute and I seeing him looking at me often but I don't know his name even or if he's single we have chatted and seem to really like each other but I don't know how to ask for his number or even if his single thanks Sharon x
Veroni Ka (1 year ago)
Matt come on.. Jamieson (or however you write his name) is not real. You know it. We know it. Admit it xD
theponsway (1 year ago)
Try living in Germany where it's like playing the dating game on highest difficulty because we don't usually just start talking to random strangers. Even at a bar it's kinda rare, we usually stay at our tables. Same goes for all other places.
Dark Lightning (2 months ago)
+ClaraMP // 羊 Subliminals I am your coworker why you want my number -_-
Anna Helena (3 months ago)
ClaraMP // 羊 Subliminals yasss 😂💪🏻
+Anna Helena hab seine Nummer vor zwei wochen bekommen, als wir nach einem Auftritt zusammen was trinken waren 😄❤
Anna Helena (4 months ago)
ClaraMP // 羊 Subliminals geh doch einfach hin, stell irgendeine Frage also nutz einen Vorwand und versuch ein Gespräch entwickeln zu lassen
Anna Helena (4 months ago)
C’mon it‘s not that hard in Germany 😂
manisha mehta (1 year ago)
Venue change number exchange !!!! This made my day ... Watched it again n again !!
vintagedesigner (1 year ago)
Matthew is so gorgeous
Emmzie O. (1 year ago)
Hey Matthew ... what if you're out by yourself and don't have friends to get back to? What's the clever line in place of "I have to get back before I get in trouble"?
Flos Li (1 year ago)
Hey I just met you and this is crazy, so here is my number, call me maybe? ^^
Sujey River (1 year ago)
What if I want your number? jajaja
Eva Volkin (1 year ago)
"Old Fashioned" way of exchanging numbers on a piece of paper, napkin or receipt? That's what we did during my dating years. "sigh"
Cher Fer (1 year ago)
tried doing this over online dating and he was basically like, peace out.
Steve Mano (1 year ago)
Do hot guys ever want to bang other hot guys?
Urška Špan (1 year ago)
i feel threatened by men. i would physically run away of exchanging the numbers. you never know what they are up to...
Fyza Sharma (1 year ago)
I did the venue exchange. I did get his number. We were sharing a room in the hostel to be very exact. It's pretty funny because it looks like he has things to say yet kind of shy away from it. Nice guy, just that too bad we are so far away from one another..but good thing about it, I've made another friend. Good tips you've got down there, Matt.
Monica (1 year ago)
I like the whole if we get on over the phone thing, but it sort of implies talking on a phone call... which I hate doing at first, but it's actually great once I get comfortable.
Yunanlij Trapinh (1 year ago)
3:38 - When you watch too much of power rangers
Sophiesticated (1 year ago)
lovely, too bad I hate talking on the phone.
You Dick Twitches (1 year ago)
That's great, now I want you. You're so hot
Anastasia Busy (2 years ago)
What about if I'm dancing with a guy at a club but then later he tells me he has to leave but doesn't ask for my number? Should I suggest we exchange numbers then? This happened to me last week and I froze and did nothing and just let him leave, so now I'm kicking myself because I really liked him and all I have is his first name!! :(
Avery Reagor (2 years ago)
Talking to guy in class Me: yea I've really got to go my friends will be mad if I don't so yeah Boy: umm ook Me: walks out of classroom Teacher: GET BACK IN HERE! SCHOOL'S NOT OVER!
Lisa Lightrider (2 years ago)
What about a business card with my OKC profile name on it, so he can find me there? A phone number is very personal. I'd rather keep in touch online, and I want to see his profile.
Sabrina Rosa (2 years ago)
*notes
02amh (2 years ago)
I've watched 4 of his videos now and i am dying to know... WHO THE FUCK IS JAMERSON😰
Pealee Lew (2 years ago)
Matthew, YT fam...do you know what just happened though?! He JUST gave me his number...HAPPILY! And refused to leave without mine! Do you know how long I've been crushing on that delicious smooth-whipped Godiva chocolate and this is all I had to do?!....oooo such eye candy AND I GOT HIS NUMBER! Ladies, y'all better listen to this man!
Maria :) (2 years ago)
This is gold.
Lance Johnson (2 years ago)
Hey laidies, I am a man watching this to get a perspective on what the dating info women get is. I am young but not inexperienced, was just wondering what shifts in what women look for during the pick up stages from a high school setting to an adult one. if you want to find out where most "good" men get their spunk, read Models by Mark Manson. trust me, you won't be disappointed.
Curious Lights (2 years ago)
*Jameson isn't real*
**adembasou** (8 months ago)
Yes he is! I seen him.
Tiago G. (1 year ago)
Curious Lights He is. Inside our hearts.
xiao tho (2 years ago)
the traffic outside is murder... wth why did i laugh
hotties3v3n (1 month ago)
I don’t know. Why?
Casmire Ohanabalu (2 years ago)
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Shellie T. Boss (2 years ago)
you are so hot. I hope this fills that sexy pride so you can be full this week, dear gosh, can you tone down your sexiness. I'm trying to learn here.
Archimedian Principle (1 year ago)
aww thanks I get that a lot...but enough about me...what about the guy in the youtube vid?
Veena Rafi (2 years ago)
Matt you resemble my bf.. not only your face.. your height and your muscles ... even your body language.. that is why my eyes fill with tears when i watch your videos.. as we are not together any more..
Elise D'Orazio (2 years ago)
Jameson and I....noticed that.
aine o connor (2 years ago)
Matthew is very cute wonder if his tips would work on him. hey a girl can dream.
Daniela Kurz (2 years ago)
Hilarious and so informative- love it! Matt you're amazing:)
kottonkandyx (2 years ago)
All your examples are in the night. I don't find any guys I like in the night. In the day I do though I find a lot of hot guys, how do I approach them and get their number?
Francesca Taddia (10 months ago)
kottonkandyx So trueee
Manders3900 (2 years ago)
Oh my gosh this is the coolest funniest guy. His dance moves and facial expressions for the tips are the best!
Renee Moore (2 years ago)
It is so awkward to see someone on the subway who might be interested but with the crowds one can feel too awkward to respond. No idea how to deal with this!
Sienna Venezia (2 years ago)
This is way too complicated, I guess I'm too stupid to be in a couple.
Joseph Flamm (2 years ago)
l believe people should be careful who they give there number to. lisa f
Ane story (2 years ago)
love this video. Definitely using this tips from now on. Thanks!!
Jack Bravo (2 years ago)
Matthew is right, there's many guys that WON'T ask for your number cause us guys are getting labeled "players" too much for asking for a girls number the first time we are around her. I'm one of those guys, if you talk to me, I'm NOT going to ask for your number, I have to signs of interest and I figure if you like me enough, you will suggest it, if not I'm walking away politely.
hotties3v3n (1 month ago)
These men are just pussies period. Using the ‘I don’t want to be seen as a player’ cop out for or doing the chasing!!!
MgtowArena (8 months ago)
Sofie.... Ha, "only out for one thing"... my gawd, how many things do women want??? The list is endless. The great comic Patric Oneal sums women up with one word. "More" :)
Perma Pen UK (10 months ago)
Stevie C: I think it's more about sending out clear 'Receptive' signals. That said, I find the signals need to be enunciated very well. Perhaps you could practise observing nice things about men and telling them, in your daily life. Start with elderly shopkeepers...
Sarah Qamar (1 year ago)
Jack Bravo awwwwwwww😊
Stephanie Slaughter (1 year ago)
Wow!!! Thats enlightening. I almost never get picked up on when I'm out but I find men staring at me a lot. I'm shy and a little old fashioned and have a SUPER hard time chasing men. I'm not sure I will ever get over that. Even with online dating I get likes every day but I feel if they guy really does like me, I'll stand out and he will want to message. Maybe I'm wrong. Women are supposed to be the pursuor now?
lee loo (2 years ago)
there's a really cute Asian guy that works at the bakery shop I think I'll go for it wish me luck
Jane Xian (3 months ago)
How did it go?
Nowrin Farial (2 years ago)
lee loo Did it work Lee?
lee loo (2 years ago)
+Delle Emme actually we're just really good friends
lee loo (2 years ago)
could he be any cuter makes me sick LOL just kidding
Vysna Balu (2 years ago)
Am I the only one expecting to see at least Jameson's reflection in the glass behind? 😂
Rosa (1 month ago)
But we did see Jameson right? I think Matt showed him in a video.
Suad Mahfouz (4 months ago)
Vysna Balu what if Jameson doesn’t actually exist and it’s all just a gimmick
Kayla Buyense (7 months ago)
https://www.facebook.com/jamiejordo
vintagedesigner (1 year ago)
Vysna Balu exactly, I'm starting to think he's Making it up
Perry Rose (1 year ago)
wanderer -- lol shut up, you dumbass.

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