This clip is very accurate, unfortunately. Myself I was growing up in a very remote place. So internet and those sites/apps where my first and only contact out. I was not at all prepared how people turn, once they feel anonymous. That was a devistating experience- and i promised myself not ever to become like this. While I get the idea of some simply preferrig a steamy date (and there is nothing wrong with it of course), does that automatically have to come by those impolite manners? I can for all in the world not understand how this is acceptable anywhere. Anyone meet me on the street like this, I'd instantly knock him out!
It does crack me up, if you ignore someone face to face you're labeled a rude ignorant C**T, but because its on a app it's considered ok?! Is saying no thanks or hitting the block button really that strenuous or inconvenient. Once saw a profile that said "if i don't reply give up with good manners", to which i pointed out that ignorance isn't good manners in the 1st place. Also the fit guys with "no pic no chat" i find deliciously hypocritical as even with a clear pic they still ignore, give a guy a set of abs and they think their a deity. Why cant people be straightforward and stick to their own rules they set. The average app user has more lying faces than a broken clock tower and its getting to the point im embarrassed to call myself gay! how can you aim for a goal when the posts are so moveable. Oh and one more food for thought....since when has "sexual preference" been a excuse for blatant racisim and discrimination! You fought for equalitity...now you got it your now fighting for segregation?!
I agree. most of these Guys on this app are asshole's. Not all Though their are some good ones. That is so Disrespectful when I see no fats No fems ON GUY'S PROFILES. And the main Problem is tomany people Judge a book by its cover. I am over weight but I am loosing to better myself. Karma is Coming. When my appearance Changes I will NOT hang out with Guys who say No fats No fems Ect. BASICALLY WHO DISRESPECTFUL IN GENERAL. I want nothing to do with NEGATIVE INDIVIDUALS. I AM A VERY POSITIVE PERSON..WITH MORALS.I HAVE ALWAYS HAD A GOLDEN HEART AND A HEART THAT LOVES EVERYONE.
Some people are ugly as fuck, some people are average and some are very attractive, that is how Life works stop being so fucking butthurt beacuse you are the worst race in the world ( i talk about asians as the worst)
OMG This is hilarious and shows just how absurd we behave on social media, because of some since of disconnect/anonymity. Totally "oxiMORONic" being that we've labeled it as "SOCIAL Media". This was a genius way to hold a mirror up to show us ourselves (one of the powers/responsibilities of the arts in this case cinematography).
And shout-outs to my man Samson. You were great. Really proud of you and happy for you. Good Work!
Very accurate but I see you glazed over the whole no blacks thing xD that's huge in the gay community along with the "No fats, Fems, asians" Basically the only thing acceptable are white people and afew others with lighter skin. Gay racist (never thought those two words would ever be together) like to use "preferences" as a shield for just the blunt over the top racism but in reality, A preference is like eating nepoleon ice cream you eat the strawberry side first because you like the way it taste, some people sampling the other two because they dont mind it and sometimes feel strawberry can be abit overbearing but some just eating the strawberry first then when you get to the other two vanilla and chocolate you still eat them even if it's not your favorite that's a preference but those gay racist dudes just eat the strawberry and throw the rest of the ice cream away and call it a preference. Thats not a preference you didnt even try them in the first place! and totally avoided them because they werent strawberry. and here I thought gay guys were more open and less divided but it seems the opposite.
One of my biggest pet peeves is guys that are either live across the country or the world for that matter wanting more then just pen pals and/or friendship. Dude,Do you even know how far away you guys are.from me.Plus there a bunch ones who live closer that are better.
And this is why I don't claim gay or the gay community. Straight people have been more kind and fun and genuine to me. Straight guys have treated me with more respect. The gays are thots, judgmental, and shady af lol
+Mikey James the fights not worth it. it is EXTREME where i live. being the "cool" or uniquely gay is heresy and i'm no longer interested in their fight because that fight of the 70s and obviously 80s is long over. gays have NO idea what good music is. they ALL worship madonna beyonce or gaga rihanna or sum mainstream bs.
GC, I AM 100% with you. was completely out and proud, now i just hang with str8 and curious men. ive never had anything in common with rad queers or stereotypical gay and the atypical werent usually not in the scene or available...im WITH u. im still out per se but i just dont hang with us.
+GOTAEBI REACTS Yes, I was upset by his calling me "nigga" in such a disrespectful and completely unprovoked manner.
As for your comment about how it *must* be that I came onto straight guys... yes, that triggered me as well: even when a friendship is completely platonic and aboveboard, there will always be a possibility of sexual attraction. This is something that is understood in straight male/female friendships, and no one seriously attempts to tar anyone with unfair accusations ... but let it be a friendship between a gay male and a straight male, and the gay male will be accused of cruising his friend and the straight male will be accused of being a latent homosexual. This will be done by people who literally know nothing about those two men other than they are friends, one is gay, and one is straight.
To hear a gay man invoking this harmful stereotype for no other reason than to lash out at someone he disagrees with ... that triggers me. It disappoints me. It upsets me.
Anyhow, I'm done on this thread. I hope you have a great life, whether or not you ever find a gay community, and that you find it in yourself to not spread any more harmful gay stereotypes.
As long as you don't put any halfnaked pictures on it you wouldn't get any answer... try and people will talk to you, gays are sometimes weirdos and mostly on apps. And the best: they pretend to be saints. They will never be saints as long as they are on these apps.
You forgetting the whole purpose of most of the apps you seem to be talking about!.... That is they are GAY sex hookup sites!!!! GTF over it! Go on Facebook if you want straight style BS. If you don't like hook up sites then DON'T GO TO THEM!! It's like some fundamentalist moron going into a leather bar and wanting the porn on the TV to be shut off! FT! There is time and places for all these behaviors and hook up sites are for hooking up for sex so you are going to see dick and ass so don't go Period!
Frankly if people were more open and honest about sex and sexuality there would be far less problems!
Never hear of it . But that doesn't change what I said. Most of the apps are hook up sites. So I would suggest those just wanting to socialize and "be friend" should not go to those and stick to your Jack's site then
+James Ferguson Jack'd is not just a hook up app. It actually brings more people that are looking for friends/dates. The men I mostly meet are from Jack'd. I get prob 5x more messages on Grindr but I yet have to meet up with one of them. Cause grindr is just so seedy.
Yeah, no fats, no blacks, no Asians, no fems, are completely valid points but Jack'd completely forgot to mention how lots of guys living with HIV are treated like #TheWalkingDead on these apps. I say this as someone who is poz-friendly and has family and friends who are positive, it sucks to hear their stories of being rejected, treated rudely, ignored, or feeling like they'll be alone forever. As HIV is still affecting gay men at alarming rates, if we dealt with stigma, maybe more guys who are going on these apps to hook up randomly, will be comfortable getting tested and treatment, and reducing the spread of HIV because no one will treat them like a monster or alienate them if they were to tested positive. You know, a friend of mine actually said to me once that he stopped bringing up his HIV status unless the other guy specifically asked because he was so tired and hurt by how so many guys treated him rudely and coldly when he was being honest. That was 3 years ago....and I think about how many guys out there don't get tested because of the fear of becoming another pariah, a monster, a feared and vilified subhuman in the gay social world. So they choose the "ignorance is bliss" path but in this case ignorance is death! As a group of people demanding to be treated with equality and respect from mainstream society, why do we treat our own with less than that? #criticalthinking
🙄 Just like people have a right to say no fats, fems, etc they also have a right not to deal with someone who has HIV. Sorry, but HIV would be the first thing that came to mind in a list of things I don't want to deal with. It's no one but your own fault you caught it in the first place. It's your responsibility to take care of your health. This is exactly why condoms were created. When you willingly sleep with someone unprotected, it's the risk you choose to take.
+Montez Mays "No one's asking you to date them"... except I feel that you are. That's why I asked Shawn for the clarification in the first place. Which I am still waiting on.
His comments seem to imply that you're a small-souled, mean-spirited, scientifically illiterate person if you aren't willing to date HIV+ individuals, but he hasn't out and out said it. Instead he's referenced rejecting HIV+ individuals on dating apps in the same breath as stigmatizing them, which muddies the water. I wish he would be clear on what exactly he's decrying here: stigmatizing HIV+ individuals, or not dating them. Because the two are not the same.
I have no problem being around HIV+ men, platonically loving them, or being friends with them. I have a problem HAVING SEX with them, just like I would not be willing to have sex with anyone who I know has an STD. That's not stigmatizing, that's just me looking after my own mental and emotional health.
To tell me that I MUST be willing to fuck someone with an STD, or else I'm a bad person is to attempt emotional manipulation of the highest and most irresponsible order. And I do wish Shawn and you would stop casting everyone who has no interest in dating HIV+ individuals as also having the habit of engaging in unsafe sex promiscuously. It's insulting and stereotyping to all gays.
Most HIV positive people are just looking for compassion, love, friendship but they settle for less because of the fear of being rejected. When you can't even be around someone because their positive theirs something spiritually wrong with you. No one's asking you to date them... Just be a nice person who cares. And don't pass judgement.... But unfortunately most individuals judge people even though their out here selling their asses to the highest bitter. People have the nerve to judge, someone who could be a billionaire that donates to charity, feeds the homeless, and is just an all around amazing person... But as soon as they reveal that their HIV positive people start gasping for dear life and saying all types of evil shit.... But however the person who's judging just got getting a train ran on them for hours and letting bodily fluids fly all over them... But has the audacity to judge someone who's positive...yet put themselves at risk for God only knows what.
+Lumps Plays actually all form of disease comes from man experimenting and playing God. Scientists have all these different diseases or evolved forms of current viruses. Instead of shaming people who are positive why don't you look in the mirror... Your not immune to disease or getting sick, your not better than another person simply because you're HIV - ... And no one's forcing anyone to date or mess around with individuals who are positive. Do you feel like people that are suffering from this disease aren't human? Because I can assure you that people with HIV don't wanna deal with you're ignorance. It's not about them wanting to date or mess around... It's about love, compassion, and respect for another human being. You keep making the same argument. And I'm pretty sure they know it's not curable yet but they don't need ignorant people saying stuff like that to them. Where is the fucking compassion? So basically if you fall in love with someone you can't be with them if their positive? .... That's basically what your saying. Basically you want to separate the negative and the positive and quarantine the ones who are positive... What do you want... HIV concentration camps? You want to alienate people with HIV like their a fucking zombie coming to eat your flesh.... FUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT IGNORANT SCIENTIFIC STATISTICAL BULLSHIT!!! I pray to the Universe and Galaxy that they come out with an amazing cure soon. Because most of you aren't worth dating or getting to know. And trust me there's a lot more out there than physical diseases...Opening yourself up to such negative human beings can have a horrible spiritual affect. All the spiritual dark and demonic energy around the world running rampant and you guys are worried about individuals with HIV. All the spiritual vampires sucking people's light and energy to the point of hospitalization... You guys can keep all the negative spiritual sapping BULLSHIT to yourselves.
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